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Ever look around your house and think, where did all this stuff come from?
You’re not alone.
Estimates suggest the average American home contains around 300,000 items—yep, that’s a three followed by 5 zeros. And yes, those are individual things.
I have a handful of kids and a house. I know how it is.
Meanwhile, our grandparents (or great-grandparents) in the early 1900s got by with around 100 personal possessions total. Imagine telling your grandpa in 1924 that you own 12 different coffee mugs, but only drink out of the same two.
So how did we get from a few cherished belongings to drowning in things? And will that ever change?
How Did We End Up with So Much Stuff?
Well, there’s an easy answer… and a more complex one.
1. Because We Can
Back in the early 1900s, manufacturing was expensive, and most people had to make do with what they had.
Clothes were worn until they fell apart. Shoes were repaired, not replaced. And if you owned more than a couple of shirts, you were basically royalty.
Fast forward to today, and fast fashion, mass production, and 24/7 online shopping have made it easier than ever to accumulate things.
Nothing new here.
Oh, and did we mention credit cards? Your grandma didn’t buy stuff she couldn’t afford. Meanwhile, we’ve got entire generations funding their need for 20 pairs of sneakers with “buy now, pay later” apps.
2. Consumer Culture
Marketing has convinced us that we need more.
But we rarely really get what we need.
In the 1950s, companies figured out that selling products wasn’t enough—they had to sell lifestyles. Ever seen an ad that made you think, that maybe your life WOULD be better if you had a juicer that also charges your phone? That’s by design.
And no, it’s not going to be better.
The result? We’ve become collectors of things we rarely use. The average 10-year-old in the U.S. owns 238 toys but plays with only 12 regularly.
12… 238.
And let’s be real—adults aren’t much better. How many kitchen gadgets do you own that seemed life-changing at the time but are now collecting dust?
I have drawers of those.
3. Bigger Houses, More Storage, Still No Space
The average size of an American home has nearly tripled since the 1950s. Yet, somehow, we still don’t have room for all our stuff.
In fact, 1 in 10 Americans rents a storage unit, because apparently, even our closets are overwhelmed.
And don’t even get me started on the garage. Wasn’t it originally designed for cars? Now it’s a graveyard for forgotten exercise equipment and that DIY project you swore you’d finish.
I wish I had a garage…
What’s the Cost of All This Stuff?
Well, the obvious first:
1. Financial Stress
The average household carries about $6,000 in credit card debt, much of it tied to discretionary purchases. That means a lot of us are literally paying interest on things we don’t use or even remember buying.
(If you’ve ever found an unopened package on your doorstep and thought, What did I order?, you know what I mean.)
2. Mental Clutter
Studies show that clutter leads to higher levels of stress and anxiety. A UCLA study found that women with cluttered homes had higher cortisol levels, meaning too much stuff is quite literally stressing us out.
Ever tried to relax in a messy room? Exactly.
I truly think this is the key step that many people who don’t get (or want to get) what minimalism is about fail to understand or underestimate.
It’s the mental benefit.
3. Environmental Disaster
We all know that those cheap things we don’t want anymore don’t magically vanish.
Americans generate over 12 million tons of furniture waste per year, and only a fraction of it gets recycled. Almost 10 million tons end up in landfills.
Not to mention the fast fashion industry, which produces 92 million tons of textile waste annually.
What Happens Next?
1. The Minimalism Movement
More people are realizing that less is more. Although this minimalism trend is on a downward curve right now.
Shows like Tidying Up with Marie Kondo made decluttering trendy, books like The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up have convinced millions to part ways with their extra junk, and YouTube is full of great minimalism content.
(Though let’s be honest—some of us just ended up buying more aesthetically pleasing storage bins instead.)
2. Experiences Over Things
Younger generations are starting to prioritize experiences over material goods. Sometimes.
Travel, concerts, and dining out are becoming the new status symbols. Sure, they still own plenty of stuff, but there’s a shift happening, I believe… or hope.
3. The Return of Quality Over Quantity
Cheap, throwaway culture may be losing its grip. Well, it won’t completely, but a little ditch, maybe.
More people are investing in high-quality, longer-lasting goods instead of cycling through endless replacements. (Your grandparents would be proud.)
In fashion, I see a lot of interest in vintage clothing. Recycled, re-worn, reused. After all, we already have enough clothes to dress every person on earth for the next 100 years. Well-dressed, even.
It’s not all lost.
So, Should We Get Rid of All Our Stuff?
Not necessarily. Well, some of us might.
But maybe it’s time to rethink why we accumulate so much. Do we really need a closet full of clothes we never wear?
Or enough kitchen gadgets to open a small café? Probably not.
The goal isn’t to live like a monk—thank God. It’s to be mindful about what we own and why.
It’s cool to have great things. It’s a luxury to have problems like this. Nevertheless, it’s a problem. And it needs fixing.
I have never felt as free as I do without so much "stuff."
I spent a couple of years living in Costa Rica and it was a lot harder to get stuff - which of course, then makes you realize how little you actually need. It was also amazing to be in a culture where people want to fix things instead of just replacing with new.
I joke that it's like realizing you've been living in the Matrix. Being sold to constantly (bigger, better, more)- to keep feeding the consumer machine. Meanwhile, you have no time to actually enjoy your life.
Stuff, but it turns out, not the right stuff. So it's shopping once again!